On a recent trip to Melbourne, a couple of news events created debate.

One event was when a 14-year-old pushed an elderly man who was minding his own business off a pier. This event was filmed by the boy’s friends and laughter was heard as the man toppled into the water. Luckily, onlookers rescued the man who was struggling to swim. The boy was charged and sent to youth court.

Another story was from the Australian Tennis Open, where a change in rules allowed viewers to come and go from their seats at any time during play. One player spoke about the distraction this was causing to their game. They also detailed how tennis was their job, how they earned their income, and that you wouldn’t expect someone to be coming and going from a boardroom meeting.

This then sparked a conversation about the gap between emoting and feeling. The comment was made that we emote so much about things, yet care so little about others.

We are becoming people who are quick to voice our own opinions and needs, yet sometimes at the expense of the needs and feelings of others.

Is this true?

Have we become activists for ourselves, whilst minimising others?

Have we become self-absorbed and self-gratifying?

Are we spilling our emotions out without consideration for others?

Are we quick to troll someone who explores a topic counter to our beliefs?

Have we lost empathy for others?

This is a juicy topic to explore. I am interested in your respectful thoughts and experiences.