While every child has the capacity for resilience and coping with the challenges of life later on, wouldn’t it be better if we planted and nurtured an oak tree - stable, strong and self-reliant, rather than raising a phoenix who was forced to rise out of the ashes on their own?

School classrooms have become very complex environments. And that’s without referring to challenges like funding, curriculum changes and managing different learning styles.

Screen time, social media, and long hours of gaming are eroding things like basic social skills, the ability to make eye contact and build and maintain friendships. Anxiety levels are high, self-esteem levels are low and those are just the ones that make it to class.

Leaving educators trying to balance many complicated levels of sensitive and diverse needs.

The bottom line is, that in terms of essential social intelligence skills, students just don’t have what they need.

So how can we help them?

By incorporating social-emotional learning skills into the classroom and providing them with opportunities to practice using the toolkits they have been given.

What is Social-emotional Learning?

Social-emotional learning or SEL, is an increasingly essential skills development concept, that helps school children to become well-rounded human beings.

It’s the framework through which students can develop the critical life skills they need so that they can exit school with an academic education and the confidence to navigate life beyond the classroom.

Truancy, poor grades, class disruptions and emotional outbursts are just some of the issues that students who lack these skills have now. When they leave school, they won’t be set up for life, they will be set up to struggle.

Social-emotional skills

What do students really need in life beyond an education? Among other things, they need to know how to advocate for themselves, set boundaries and have the confidence to engage with a wide range of people.

Otherwise, you end up with an adult who is too scared, shy or overwhelmed to handle basic life admin things like returning a faulty product to a store or dealing with service providers.

This makes things like asking for a raise, negotiating a contract or resolving a conflict at work borderline impossible.

But what if kids could leave school with the foundations of these skills plus the confidence to use them?

It would be a game changer, that could recalibrate the course of their entire adult lives.

Why SEL Matters

Anxious kids who lack confidence and struggle to communicate their needs could have high stress levels and not be doing well academically.

SEL equips students to have a better understanding of their emotions and well-being and provides them with tools and skill sets to help them develop strong social awareness and communication skills.

Classrooms that incorporate SEL learning create vibrant, safe, inclusive places where being different is not only respected and celebrated, it is cherished.

It has the potential to transform learning experiences and empower students to realise their highest potential.

Imagine a way we could help our kids make good decisions, thrive in good friendships and have the courage to try new things.

Bringing SEL into the classroom makes all of these things possible.

**Dr Martyn Newman’s ten identified competencies for emotional intelligence.** **RocheMartin.**

“The research is clear: emotions determine whether academic content will be processed deeply and remembered. Linking emotion to learning ensures that students find classroom instruction relevant.” Marc Brackett, Permission to Feel

Work with Us

Momentum Learning has been supporting Leaders, Teams, Teachers, Rangatahi and their Whānau to develop their social and emotional intelligence since 2020. Talk to us about exploring this for your organisation.

Let’s work together.